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2ND GEN RESOURCES

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BOOKS

groupBechdel, Alison, Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic. ISBN13: 9780618477944, 2006. This graphic novel is a memoir of Alison's own coming out process interwoven with stories from her family and especially her closeted gay father.

Bernstein, Robin and Silberman, Seth, eds. Generation Q: Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals Born Around 1969's Stonewall Riots Tell Their Stories of Growing Up in the Age of Information. Alyson Publications, 2000. ISBN: 155583356X

Forney, Ellen. Monkey Food: The Complete "I Was Seven in '75" Collection, Fantagraphics Books 1999. This book is a collection of comics by a 2nd Generation artist and illustrator.

Gluckman, Ryn. “Relearning the Mother Tongue: Notes from a Second Generation Queer.” In Revolutionary Voices: A Multicultural Queer Youth Anthology. Amy Sonnie, ed. Alyson Publications, 2000.

Howey, Noelle; Samuels, Ellen, Eds. Out of the Ordinary: Essays on Growing Up With Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Parents. St. Martin’s Press 2000. A few of these essays are written by 2nd Generation adults.

Leavitt, David. The Lost Language of Cranes. Mariner Books; Reprint edition, 1997.

Maupin, Armistead. Tales of the City. This six-book serial about a variety of characters in San Francisco includes stories that are comical, poignant, suspenseful, and surprising. Includes LGBT characters, some of whom have kids, and some of whom are 2nd Gen.

Nicolson, Nigel. Portrait of a Marriage. University of Chicago Press, 1998 (reprint ed.) Gay author Nicholson writes of the marriage of his famous parents, the author Vita Sackville-West (who was Virginia Woolf’s longtime lover) and author, politician and diarist, Harold Nicolson, also a bisexual. This telling of his parent’s marriage shows a complex and truly original partnership.

Rafkin, Louise. Different Mothers: Sons and Daughters of Lesbians Talk About Their Lives. Cleis Press 1990. This book is a collection of reflections and stories written by young and adult children with lesbian mothers. Some of them are 2nd Gen.

MOVIES

The Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls in Love. While this movie focuses on the story of two youth kindling a relationship, the main character is a young dyke that lives with her lesbian aunts who act as her guardians.

Like Mother, Like Son. 1994. Documentary. Annette Kennerley's five-year-old son talks about dressing up in women's clothing in this eye-opening film from the United Kingdom.

The Lost Language of Cranes. 1992. Distributed by BBC Television. When a young gay may comes out of the closet. His friends support him, but when he comes out to his parents, he stirs up a wealth of hidden feelings and secrets in their relationship because his father is living a closeted gay existence. Based on the book by David Leavitt.

Our House: A Very Real Documentary About Kids with Lesbian and Gay Parents. By Meema Spadola. Six stories about youth of different ages and backgrounds with alternative families. One of the youth interviewed, Cade, is a 2nd Generation dyke who talks about coming out in a house of lesbians.

Shared Lives. By Tamsin Orion. A documentary about second generation lesbians.

The Sum of Us. By David Stevens. Australian movie with a “skipped” 2nd Generation: a gay man has a lesbian grandmother based on Steven’s play of the same name. 1994.

TV

(Note: these shows can currently be seen in syndication)

High Society 1995 Short-lived comedy with supporting character Stefano (Luigi Amodeo) as a gay man with a lesbian mom.

Seinfeld 1990-1998. George’s deceased fiancee, Susan (portrayed by Heidi Swedberg), was a bisexual whose dad was also bi (and had an affair with noted author John Cheever!)

ARTICLES

“In our parents' footsteps” The Advocate, June 20, 2006. LGBT kids who grew up with gay parents are finding support in groups like COLAGE. And they're discovering their desire to work in the gay rights movement. Includes interviews with members of the COLAGE Staff, Board of Directors and Speak Out program. http://www.advocate.com/currentstory1_w.asp?id=31704

“An Interview with Daniel Cherubin, Founder and Director, Second Generation” From NYC Center Kids Talk, Oct. 1998 http://www.gaycenter.org/kids/kidstalk/sept98.htm#Daniel Cherubin

“Research Summery on Lesbian and Gay Parenting.” American Pscyhological Association Public Interest Directorate. 1995 http://www.apa.org/pi/parent.html

“Second Generation” a regular series of articles that appear in the COLAGE newsletter, Just for Us.

Garner, Abigail. “Second Generation: GLBT Kids of GLBT Parents.” From the Families Like Mine Website. http://www.familieslikemine.org/insight/SG.html

Kirby, David. “The Second Generation.” From the New York Times June 7, 1998. http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Village/3497/nytart.html

Weinstock, Laura J. “All in the Queer Family: Why Even Kids of Lesbians and Gay Men Have Trouble Coming Out to their Parents.” Curve Magazine. November, 2001.

WEBSITES

colagersAdvocates for Youth
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org

Coalition for Positive Sexuality
http://www.cps.org

COLAGE (Children Of Lesbians And Gays Everywhere)
http://www.colage.org

Youth Resource
http://www.youthresource.org

MISCELLANEOUS

Bechdel, Allison. “Dykes to Watch Out For.” This comic series now includes many books that portray a diverse cast of characters including some mention of Second Gen issues.

Kirby, Robert. “Father and Son.” Comic strip.


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